Waiting for WAH to decide my fate?

[Serenity13]

(((Try)))

I could have written your post word for word and in hindsight, I wish I wouldn't have told my family however it is done and there is no going back - Of course they want the best for you and they give advice based on what "they would do in this situation" however they don't walk in your shoes. You need to decide what you want to do for you and no one else. This is your life and you only get one shot at it.

I do sort of feel like a jackass, sitting around waiting for him to make up his mind...

Then stop waiting around for him and make up your mind to move forward...It isn't easy however it must be done. This isn't about you it is about him and his demons. He has to be the one to want to come back so in the meantime, you GAL and do the 180's and I promise each day a sliver of you will be put back in place, and when all is said and done you will be a better person for it.