It's complicated but it's mine #28

[kat727]

I had an interesting conversation with a client yesterday. His daughter is going through a divorce. Like my Dad, he was very much in the "Get it over with" mode. I did tell him that it wasn't as easy as all that. She would need to come to that realization in her own time.

Also commented on how my Dad sometimes tries to motivate me by making me mad and yes sometimes hurting my feelings. He had told me if I hadn't let myself go, Ex might not have left. Yes I know, hurtful. Since I got married I have gained 50 pounds. I know that is awful but 20 of it came from when the affair started. Anyway I said something to the client that my Dad said that and he asked if I had always been overweight. Nope, I used to be called sticks in school because I was so skinny. Anyway, I think that may have been my wake up call having someone neutral think I was too heavy for my build. No point being upset, just need to start making some changes.

They say you do better when you write it down and tell someone, so here you are.

kat