Interesting behavior last night.. I got home later than usual and W was actually pleasant. She initiated conversation about how was my day; when I was speaking with my Kids, she made a point to add comments in.
While watching TV, W uncharachteristicly, was making funny comments and remarks. I joined in and made similar remarks. After about an hour, W decided to turn in for the night and I was going to do the same. We both passed tru the kitchen and W turned to me, came close to me, gently touched my arm and very pleasantly said good night.
I felt and sensed a bit more closeness and friendliness than has been there in a long time. It really made me think and reminded me about how well we used to get along and also made me sad to think of all thats we've been doing to each other.
I know to not believe what is said and half of what they do.... also bad=good and good=bad... Im just confused, because this is a clear 180 from W behaviors in the past month...
It might sound like I'm making a huge deal over something so trivial, but when in a desert, a drop of water gets your total attention..
I'm going away for the weekend away from the home,,I need to clear my head and take a break from all of this...
So far, no call from my atty, regarding me being served (W states she did so on 12/30..)
Still continue to get positive comments about me getting back in shape again. So much so that I wonder what the Hell I must have looked like last year...! Was told in our gym by a co-worker whom I interact with occasionally, "XXXX Man, whatever your doing, keep it going,,, I remember metting you last year and you are shadow of your former self, you're looking great.." What a great positive reinforcement to start the weekend on..
Last edited by DDogs; 01/22/1003:43 PM.
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