no physical attraction/love anymore

[lostnotgone]

your story is so much like mine - except I am the wife and my H said he does not love me anymore. He moved out 2 weeks ago.

We have been married for 20 years and have 3 children. We married very young (I was 18) and we had our first child less than a year later. I knew we had problems but did not say anything - neither did he. He would come home from work and immediately go outside - cook dinner - not eat with the family and stay outside until he was done with an 18 pack of beer. I would go to bed early - why stay up alone on the couch.

Now that he has moved out - he does not even want to think about working things out - I am giving him the space he needs - told him the other night he just can't stop by the house to see the kids - it just hurts too bad to see him right now.

O also order the DB book and waiting for it to get it. Divorce does not happen in my family and I am praying that one day he sees that we can work this out - nothing done can not be fixed RIGHT ?