Don't cut off contact with her because she will feel rejected. You don't need to see her. When she calls -- because she will -- tell ask her to give you some time. No explanation. Just time. Tell her the truth, this hit you harder than you expected and you need some time.
Got it. If she calls I will answer the phone and you're right, I do need some time if this really is the truth this time. It seems like it is. Lots of crying on her part and what seemed like regret. I think the thing that gets me the most is that she's still doing this, that is sleeping with random guys. Who does that? And if she really wanted to come home, why dear God does she continue to act this way? It makes no sense. When I asked her why, she said she was lonely and that the last one had just been nice to her. UGGGGHHHHH!!!!!
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
