I find it interesting that she uses the team reference and also says "our". Even the talk of the future.... many of them can't and don't look that far ahead.
Then the rest is all about you and what you need to do.
I know it probably doesn't sound right, but those are her feelings. She may not be able to think and rationalize like you and me yet, but this is how she feels and arguing over them would be pointless.
This is sort of the suck part of all this. She isn't ready to even hear about your needs yet. I know it's not right but it's the way it is for now.
