It's amazing to me that he can be surprised that you thought so bad of him at times. It's like they are in a true bubble of denial about the extreme impact of their actions. They are so busy being confused and monitoring their own pain they have no realistic assessment of the damage done to the other. Good luck this week. Seems with the financial stress and the hurt and anger that could linger for some time that things could get tense if you're not careful.
