yes, i would want to respond too. but, not sure that anything you would say would make a difference. the only thing I hate is that people take silence as an acceptance to the accusation. but, I think it's probably the best thing to ignore.
I disagree. I think ignoring him, especially if you maintain the silence, says far more about it. It'll make him wonder if he pushed too far or said the wrong thing. He's not going to say "gee I sure showed HER and I must be right b/c for once, she's NOT responding"....on the contrary, the answering him is what he WANTS and expects and that is what confirms to him all the negatives he wants to believe about you. Don't fuel any negatives and same goes for the crazy MGFs...let them kill each other. They will. Emotionally. I mean if you don't provide them any drama that unites them in a "us against S2" way, then they'll eventually turn to others, and at some point against each other...Stay out of their way and GAL on your own...
I would get that garnishment in asap since he's late on the second one, and not doing what he says he will do. and prepare yourself for his reaction. Prepare yourself to ignore his reaction. Just "show me the money" and let him stew and spin around in circles ALONE or at least, without you.
that's why I say write the letter just days before he would get the notice. yes, he will still be mad, but imho, it gives you the chance to show it as a benefit to everyone, instead of just an attack against him, which is how he will see it of course. but I understand whatever you choose to do, I wouldn't want to be in your position, and I'm sorry you have to deal with it all.
Can't wait til you detach.... j-
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