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fisherman #1921436 01/21/10 08:59 PM
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I have a 2 out of 10 chance she'll take another look before it's too late, what the heck does too late mean anyway?!


The next time you pull numbers out of your ass, hit me up with the NY State lotto numbers. : )

Too late is when YOU have moved on with no desire to have her in your life. Or...one of you is dead.



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PS - yes it is me.
I'm not psychic I did not know your real name since you cannot post it here.



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hit me up with the NY State lotto numbers. : )
They don't have lottery in Alaska? You have to come all the way to NY?


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Lottos here are for Denlai Park passes and Access to Moose Kills.

AK pop of 600,00 in the summer 300,000 in winter makes for a pisspoor lotto take.



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Oooh... count me in on the moose kill...NOT. Those things are huge! I've only seen stuffed ones of course. Unless you're referring to something else that I know nothing about.

What's up AYK?

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SoCo #1921766 01/22/10 05:19 AM
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Wife texted me some son stuff, texted back, ask him, then she texted back is his phone charged, texted back don't know
next thing i know she texted me and asked y didn't want her to give me family pics,texted back cause we're not a family that's why...

she texts hey you want to talk?

I texted back nah,got the kids,myself,i'm good.

she texts back she likes the shrink, texted back seriously last time you said a cnslr was helping u u filed for divorce:)

she texted back well that's a shock---denied again by you.

texted talk when ur ready,but u call first.

she texted liked the shrink he was intelligent.

texted her back yep guy saved my f'ing life.

she texts back well just wanted to shoot the s**t.

texted u know my #,where I live.

she kept texting, but what the heck is up with asking me if i wanted to talk?!!!

I KNOW THE FOG.

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was i right to text she makes the first move?

made it pretty clear with her sunday, gonna treat her like she's treated me, like an ex.

set up my own appts for school conferences, went and put D on a list for a different hs. that deals with ld kids.

i had given wife books well anyway, when i was over getting those records for our friend, the books were in the garage, so i grabbed them too.

Guys, we have a friend Dawn Hope, we need to help her, too.

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Jack too funny! that's what my preacher friend said, i said to him, what the heck does everyone mean by too late.

He said it's not too late until one of you is dead.

I asked him some other stuff, he says ayk, what's your gut say?

Said my gut says ride it out, that we can be a family again.

he said well your guts always been pretty good.

he's been a pastor for 47 yrs, so i asked well what about in laws and friends or what's been said.

he asked me does it bother you, said only thing that bothers me is she filed for divorce.

he said do you feel if others care if you're apart, said no, other people got their own stuff.

he said exactly.

the one that gets the strongest the quickest wins he said.

it's funny his wife had a mlc, it was bad, but he rode it out.

now she's not completely out of it, gets angry every now and then, but he went from desperation and losing a 27 yr marriage to it worked out.

he said because he got tough, set boundaries with his wife, made it clear what he would take,kids would take, and he wasn't changin' everything for her.

and he prayed.

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Well i put my real name on a post, then you joked back, hmmm none of the names match in the fans.

You're funny Jack.

Jack how long was your wife's and how old were you two?

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Kid,

I'm not you and no offense...I learned DBing quicker than you.

We were 34.

I was one of the lucky ones in the ammount of time it took, although, I will say I do believe it was a combination of luck and DBing skills.

This is your path, you're the hero of your story. Understand?



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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