Jack too funny! that's what my preacher friend said, i said to him, what the heck does everyone mean by too late.
He said it's not too late until one of you is dead.
I asked him some other stuff, he says ayk, what's your gut say?
Said my gut says ride it out, that we can be a family again.
he said well your guts always been pretty good.
he's been a pastor for 47 yrs, so i asked well what about in laws and friends or what's been said.
he asked me does it bother you, said only thing that bothers me is she filed for divorce.
he said do you feel if others care if you're apart, said no, other people got their own stuff.
he said exactly.
the one that gets the strongest the quickest wins he said.
it's funny his wife had a mlc, it was bad, but he rode it out.
now she's not completely out of it, gets angry every now and then, but he went from desperation and losing a 27 yr marriage to it worked out.
he said because he got tough, set boundaries with his wife, made it clear what he would take,kids would take, and he wasn't changin' everything for her.
