I'm Gonna Wash That Man Right Out of My Hair.

[goldeylox]

Damn...just the message I needed this morning, as I'm picking out what to wear to the L's office in downtown Portland. What does a homeless, disabled, broke gal wear to the best D firm in town?
Shoes. One shoe, anyway.
I had a very nice lunch yesterday with a good friend. We had a wonderful visit, and I shared that in the past, I said I would never hire a 'shark', that I wanted to try to settle things amicably.
Too late, buddy. You messed with the wrong Goldey, now she's pissed. (Insert Jaws theme music)
My new L is going to do her job, and do it very well.
My sister will be here Friday to help me settle into the new place, drive me around...etc.
It's my last night at the awesome hotel.
Jeffy, if you're out there, I can get you a tee time at the Reserve, with a cart, for $35. I'll grab Kerry and we'll make fun of your swing.
That's it for now, friends. Time for breakfast. love, Goldey

[goldeylox]

Coach, I never really answered your question about my sister.
She is quite a bit younger than I am and has acheived much in her career because she is even smarter. Much more confident.
She calls BS before it's even out of your mouth.
Knows what she wants, knows what she needs, and knows the difference.
She's purposeful. If I'm a rockstar, then she's a Diva. And she's coming to Portland.
There are still a few seats left (small venue), and I don't have room service at the new pad. I do, however, have everything I need...me.

[Gnosis]

What does a homeless, disabled, broke gal wear to the best D firm in town?

The cheapest, oldest clothes possible - to tug on their heartstrings and get them to drop their rates and FIGHT for you.

I had a very nice lunch yesterday with a good friend. We had a wonderful visit, and I shared that in the past, I said I would never hire a 'shark', that I wanted to try to settle things amicably.

Thank God you changed your mind.

Too late, buddy. You messed with the wrong Goldey, now she's pissed. (Insert Jaws theme music)

ROFLMAO. I hate hearing these words off other women's lips, but they are the MOST appropriate I can think of: "YOU GO GIRL!!!"

[Gnosis]

Some goals for Goldey in her new-found freedom:

- Increase your confidence. (You've already got it!)
- Start calling BS
- Set your goals and work towards them (Know what you want and don't forget it or compromise to set it aside...)
- Get purposeful.

And take your sister's advice!

[goldeylox]

Well, I am walking in with my Stormtrooper boot. It's quite the fashion statement. It's black, so it goes with everything.
To recap...homeless, disabled, broke, and only one shoe.
I'm like that lady pushing everything she owns around in a shopping cart. Only my cart is a Honda Pilot.
Have a great day, Gno...I'll be in the alt tonight.

PIZZA AND BEER AT GOLDEY'S NEW PAD TOMORROW NIGHT!
Bring your own chairs. And beer, if you wish to partake.
No psychopaths allowed.

[smith18]

After your STBXH gets the legal papers, be prepared for hearing some huge BS from him on the phone. Remember that there is a hangup button.

I think too far to the future...but how will you feel if and when your XH starts a new relationship with another woman?

I mean, you felt you were conned by him early on in your marriage...what if the new lady he meets is a bit naive...would you feel compelled to warn her of his true nature? It seems like a real dilemma - on one hand you should butt out of your XH's personal life, but on the other hand, it does not seem right to allow another woman to experience abuse.

[BobbiJo]

OH, the stormtrooper boot. I had to wear one of those just after I joined the DB boards thanks to a fall on the ice 2 yrs ago...they stink!

Feels so weird walking it it, but beats trying to put weight on the ankle...do you have to sleep in it, too? Ick.

Good luck with the attorney today. I am glad you are taking a stand and protecting yourself.

[smith18]

How did the meeting go with Smiley?

[Gnosis]

How did the meeting go with Smiley?

ROFL

[goldeylox]

Good one, Kerry. She is a powerhouse, my L. As soon as I have the retainer ready, it's party time at the courthouse. I'll file the petition myself, and bring her in for the appearances.
I never really considered what STBX would do post-Goldey.
While I would likely feel an urge to blow his cover, I have a strong feeling that it would only backfire.
Besides, I'm way more interested in what Goldey's future holds than what he's doing next. Turns out, there's a lot of attractive men out there!
Before you lob snowballs and whack me w/ wooden objects...I have no plans to date, for a long time. I really need to be alone for a while. Looking forward to it, actually.