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I'm sorry OldPilot, but this does not sound like alien speak to me at all. I think she is being very clear about what she wants and this is consistent with the very first post you made on here. I suggest you reread what you wrote.

My interpretation:
Your W believes that she has not been treated as an equal partner in your marriage. You have been the main financial support for your marriage and she feels that you have been making decisions about your business and career that have not included her. She needs to feel financially secure and she does not feel that way now.

For some women, financial support is a basic need of theirs. (See the book "His Needs, Her Needs") Her relationship needs are not being met unless she feels financially secure.