AFWAW I'm about to go to bed... was planning on giving you a longer answer.

Take some time to digest this new information and not to react. Give yourself at least 48 hours. Don't cut off contact with her because she will feel rejected. You don't need to see her. When she calls -- because she will -- tell ask her to give you some time. No explanation. Just time. Tell her the truth, this hit you harder than you expected and you need some time.

Try and get some rest for now. I know its not easy and your mind is spinning at 19,000 revs per second. See if you can do something to remove your focus on the issue temporarily.

Pat yourself on the back. You handled yourself with her admirably.


M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT