Seen H tonight for just a few minutes. Said "Hi", and "Bye" to him. For the first time in weeks, he didn't hang around to try to talk to me. That scares me a little.
I've seen so many signs of an affair, but can't prove anything. I'm really considering hiring an investigator. My therapist said that if I knew for sure that he was with OW, it might help me to let go. I tend to agree with her. Not that this would make my stitch any easier, but it would explain a lot of his behavior. In addition, it would stop those thoughts I have, not knowing for sure but suspecting is tuff.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
