here we go again

[bluerain]

Hi Jstar! Im sorry for the difficulties. I totally understand your frustrations, you have every right to be furious. He is being a total louse right now.

I think that you are setting yourself and your kids up for a good life, and for some reason he wants to be the leader of the family. Thats why he wants you to live with his parents- thats the only way he can be the provider- and thats what he wants to feel like. IMO. Why would you downgrade like that? I wish that I could do more for you from here!

Is there something that you could do for yourself right now? Maybe a pedicure or something like that? I know that your strapped for $$$ right now, but it might be a worthwhile investment!