Hi Undefeated, mama said there'd be days like this didnt she? lol Your doing fine. Even if you have a few rough days. What happened to make you think that you had messed up? Have you done any research into PTSD? Its a tough one. But I dont think that it should change your approach. Especially if your approach includes no longer being hyper-critical and making sure to not yell or any of that.
Im glad that you are getting settled in to your new place! Ill bet that the change in climate is a welcome one for you!
I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...