Here is what you do... forget for THREE minutes that you are a mother and a wife. Look in the mirror and say out loud.. I am a WOMAN. W-O-M-A-N. Got it, self? WOMAN. I am not just a person that raises children and tends house and is a wife. I am a WOMAN. Say it. Believe it. Step off the high horse and find out what kind of woman you are. The strut away like you are a Victoria's Secret model and remember that 'tude because you are going to need it.