Karen, I think you need to quit being nice and going for temporary alimony. What if the job doesn't work out(I am knocking on wood as I say that), or you don't get remarried or you get sick. Don't cave on it. Really what you are making now shouldn't make that big of difference.
Stay strong. kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory