Hi ROP, if your wife walked away so fast she will most probably at some point in time regret her decision. My xh left me with two very young kids for a fellow collegue. Grass was greener on the other side of the fence, he filed for D a year later and remarried a year and 3 months later... yet a few months after marring OW he started thinking he wanted his family back... now a 1.5 years later we are discussing the possiblility of recon. I think we grow a great deal from these situations. I did date, met some wonderful men... made me realize what my true worth is. Needless to say I wont settle... and I think that makes us even more desirable to WAS, yet at the same time we grow and learn the true value of ourselves. Live for yourself.... if she is truly yours she will come back!