LMNW,
Unfortunately you are far from alone with stress from the finances these days.

OK, you made a mistake with the house, but it sounds as if your W is trying to understand.

Also, consider that being together is probably saving you all kinds of hidden costs. You are no longer supporting one and a half households--you are supporting one.

How is your little girl? Realize it is the child fantasy to have parents back together, esp. preschool age....


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D