Well I have received my answer from the MRS. I present it here:
"OP My needs as I define them start with talking with openness and mutual respect. This being a team means talking about core issues. How you make plans in life. That there is an active plan for the future. Setting aside time to talk about the challenging things going on and the need to change. I need to know that you are accountable and active participant in our financial future. That you are looking to provide more financial security. That you are rethinking your job situation. Doing something different than you are doing now. This planning and carrying out the plan soon is how I can feel secure. Again this was started and in my head before my own job situation woes (which I hope will be over soon). No matter how that turns out I need those things to feel secure in a relationship.
Mrs OP"
Well it sounds like alien speak to me. Anybody else have an opinion?
