Sandi2 Thanks for all the advice. It really does help. She expects me to be ok with her staying in contact with OM as "friends" because she says she has to work on herself before she can make a decision. I know from what little I have gathered that she is still allowing OM to pursue her and when I asked her about it she stated she can't do anything about what he chooses to do and to just trust her. I have already figured Bullshit. I am gathering intel right now to cover my own back.
No I did not bring up the boundaries talk she stated that we need to have a talk when I get back if living in the same house is going to work. I figured this would be a good time to state my boundaries as well.
I agree she is addicted...Not just to the fantasy romance but I think to the internet period. She says the only thing that bothered her about OM was that he had so many women on his myspace page but that he took them all off without her asking. He really is laying it on thick. I have heard her say she mentioned something to him and then he turns around and does it and plays it in such a way she thinks he did it by "reading her".
Sandi2 I love her enough to stick this out and I believe enough in my marriage to do the hard things. I also love myself enough to do the hard things.
If you do not mind me asking...You said you were a former WAW. Could you please let me know what it took for you to come out of the fog and see things for what they were?
