I agree with your current plan Rocked. Just work on detaching from his emotions regarding this subject. Remember that H is responsible for his own happiness. I know you want to help, but it's better to let him learn how to deal with his emotions. Your part is to learn how to take care of your own emotions and nothing more.
I was just re-reading this. Didn't sink in the first time I guess...lol. But, Pearl, you are right on the money. This really is my main task right now I think. I am in danger of falling back into my old habit of feeling responsible for H's feelings/happiness etc. Until this sitch, I hadn't realized how much I had done that, but it has been an eye opener for me. I need to keep remembering this. Thanks, my friend!
