Britt, if I lived nearby, I would consider it an honor and an absolute PLEASURE.

As for the courage... you don't need it. What you need to tap into now is the ANGER. You need to strip off the "nice girl" panties and become the b1tch from hell. At that specific moment, forget ALL about DB, validation etc. Let him have it. SPEW on him. Swear at him. COMPLETELY LOSE IT!

It will be the best thing you have ever done.

Oh, and don't think of the consequences... because they will be better than you ever imagined.