Remember women like to spin two plates at one time, if she thinks that she is loosing you, she might just come back and solidify you and then go right back to the OM.
Keep what you are doing, Except that it is probably boundry time if she says she is going to see OM or is busy for Valentines Day and has to go out of town, time to put your big boy britches on then and lay it down.
Let's wait and see what happens, still a way out until V-day