My W is deeply suspicious of me as well. She's so closed off that it doesn't come out often, but she's accused me of tracking days I have them to prepare a case against her.
She's also really worried about me being the "fun one." I'm just more even tempered when dealing with them and more energetic. I like to get out and do things. She's more of a sit on the couch person.
That's why I don't think there's an OM. She is really clinging to the kids because she doesn't have a very active social life or large circle of friends.
Big minefield.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
