If you can avoid R talks all the better but some times you just cant wiggle your way outta one because of some thing important, so you did your best to handle what got thrown at you in a calm, and sensible manner, you cant make it any worse than it is so stop beating yourself up for doing your best.
Yes you will have rattled her cage and yes she will pull back and think about things making you feel like you have messed up, but that isnt necessarily the case.. I use the same technique now when I need to draw H in, before I would have lost it and made things worse, its far more effective for me to withdraw and wait, come on your in the military you know how to stalk your prey dont you! Sometimes you just need to keep a watchful eye on them and dont spook them into running away, well thats all you have to do right now. This is after all psychological warfare at its best, ok the fact MrsGW is in the military too makes it a bit more like battleships you both know youre playing but you cant see the other ones armoury. Just dont go on the defensive thats a big mistake,keep that bright cheery GAL'ing MrGW looking and being his best.
Were nearly at the weekend so what have you got planned for then?
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
