I am sorry to see you here and I know your pain. I have only been here a short while but do not make the mistake I made. DO NOT MOVE OUT! I did for last week until I stopped being the victim and told her I was moving back in because I refuse to live with someone and pay her bills up there so she can continue her internet affair. Again DO NOT MOVE OUT!! Other things that have worked so far...Get A Life. Start doing things for yourself. Your self-esteem and rebuilding it are the most important things you can do right now. I had to take a hard look at myself through her eyes to see how hard she did try and what I was not doing. When I saw myself for who I was I did not like it but knew it could change. Since doing my 180s my self image and self confidence are skyrocketing. This causes confusion and doubt in the WAW. This stuff really works. It is good you do not think there is an affair because i am having to fight not only the WAW syndrome but an EA over the internet that has her in a fantasy world. But let me tell you that if you work on you things can change. I have already started to get some results and have met one of my goals. But you have to do this for you or it will be seen a mile away. The other thing is believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. Many times WAW have a script and it is all the same. Change you and make you happy. DO NOT BE A VICTIM!!! DO BECOME A SELF MADE MAN!!! Live evry day not just as if you have moved on but as if everything you want is going to come to you. You can do this. get control of your emotions and start remembering who you are. Remember your strength, your commitment, and that no matter what happens you can come out standing on your own two feet. This is important!
