Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

She works full time as a preschool teacher for a local school district. She clears about $200.00 per month after paying for gas to travel to work and for daycare for S2.

She works to make her happy and give her something to do, not because her income is needed.

I told her years ago that I did not care what she did for a job as long as she broke even.

For years working with the children and interacting with the other teachers and parents made her happy and she accomplished many good things with the kids.

I did not tell her I was proud of her for those accomplishments. In fact at times I discounted them. This contributed to the crisis that I am in today.