My new life

[C-Bart]

W came over to look for SS card. I should have told her no I'll look for it. She presented me with a letter (one sentence) from Physco stating he does not recommend W attends Retro. She is visibly shaken. I look at the letter an some other papers she had for me but made no comments. She says she didn't think he would have a problem, etc. I said nothing.

Conversation moved to scheduling and kids. As I'm out of town next week and she is working we will go into Nanny status for the first time. She gets more upset and starts accusing me of using the kids against her and to interfere with her job. She then pulls up a reference were I supposedly called her last minute. I told her I have no idea what she is talking about. She then goes into extensive details of what I did and how she had to jump through hoops. Guess I fixed that problem.

Next she says when says something I don't like, say I'm not going to retro, I get "nasty". Maybe I do. Something to work on I guess. I asked her if I was not suppose to get angry or upset. What am I suppose to do here? Go sulk and then become passive aggressive? I admit that I do have a tendency to fall back into old habits - but I'm working on it.

I've only seen her like this a couple of times. Once during the "breakdown" and today. It is scary. She really thinks I want to take the kids away from her and/or destroy her life. Is this typical MLC or something else?

I really don't know what to do anymore.