He is lost right now. He is still living in his fantasy. Telling him to read the bible doesn't mean a hill of beans to him. Showing him what is in the bible doesn't mean a hill of beans to him if he already knows it is in there. And besides that, if they want, they will always try and find a way to twist and turn things around in the bible to fit what they want. I know. My W did it. It was ridiculous the stuff she was trying to twist around. I finally gave up on trying to show her anything in the bible. At this point probably for both you and me, our S's are in the Lord's hands to turn around. We just have to keep praying, being patient, and focusing on our own lives.
I'm sure the C/S did anger him. But he does have a daughter that he is responsible for. It might have been a good dose of reality for him. Kind of a wake up call. He will have to pay it so it will be interesting to see how it affects things now.
I'm sorry things turned into the arguement they did IRMAC. Pray about it and maybe some good will come of it.
I honestly feel your pain IRMAC.
Kevin
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Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...