I've been thinking about the move-out situation. If it comes to that, I'm going to let her know that I have no plans of setting renting a place and setting up a permanent residence for myself. I'll let her know that I'm willing to give her space. My Dad has a large place and room and I can stay there weekends with the kids or a couple nights a week. If she insists on a complete separation, then she'll have to realize that she's also committing herself to seeing her kids two weeks out of every month because I will make sure and get a place that will accommodate me and the kids.
I am going to strongly suggest that the person that wants out of the M moves out. They need space. YOU set a boundary that they do not take the kids until a written parenting agreement is in place.
A man does not let the woman dictate what he does. If this is a 180, stand up to your W. She will respect you. She may get angry.
"I have decided that I am staying in my house with my children. You are free to leave if you need the space. We will be fine without you."
Her: "bla bla bla you can't take care of the kids bla bla bla I will take the kids and go live bla bla bla"
"You will not remove our kids for the marital home. If you do, I will file an injunction"
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
