Only love for her and my sons is stopping me.

Is it your love or your fear?


I just need to figure out how to convey that message.

gucci laid it all out for you right here dude:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1921378&page=11


Since she is using OM for external validation, is it possible she is trying to replace OM with the old friends through facebook?

Probably, seeing as how you are so cool with it. Always good to have a back-up if you can get away with it.


I think she is acting like Smartcookie did and is using this to punish me for years of hurting her self esteem.

Your wife's behavior is waaaaay beyond anything smartcookie did and I don't think she did it to "punish" her H.

Do you feel like you need to be punished? Is that one thing that keeps you tolerating OM?

Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
let her see what it'll be like to have that empty house all to herself while you have fun with the kids.


Well, . . . unless she decides she wants company. KWIM?

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