THanks friends. My S5 is my party planner. He decorated a "fire engine" cake for me, told me which friends to invite over for dinner, got a game ready, and told me he has a "surprise" for me tonight. He's been hinting at it for weeks.
Best parts - S5 woke me up this morning with a huge smile and an enthusiastic "HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOMMY!', H brought me coffee, and didn't yell about the ants feasting on my cake plate from last night
I'm cuddled up on the couch reading with kitties, chatting with friends - nothing makes me happier.
So glad we are hear to support each other thanks to all of you!