Her resistance in the past to sever all contact is, indeed, a form of addiction. It's difficult to describe. But I was there once. And it may also help to know that each of those "one more time" contacts was less satisfying than the last for me. Each time I'd talk to or see my ex OM I was trying to bring back that initial euphoria, the original high. But every time I saw him it became more obvious how real our relationship hadn't been. And eventually you don't need the contact anymore at all.
If he hasn't been removed from her FB by tonight, don't let her slide on this! This was/is a big sticking point for you. Remember, the only way boundaries work is if they are enforced. If she won't sit down tonight with you right there and write him a no contact statement and delete him as a friend, I'd be demanding some answers.
And I'm sure you did fine, even without my edits. If you got your points across, then the script is less material.
Take care and I will be here as often as I can.
undefeated 24 H 24 S's 4, 2, 1 M 5 yrs
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." ~Dale Carnegie
If you got your points across, then the script is less material.
