This is not DB and it is manipulative, but a little sadness on your part, or crying or whatever. pull out the violin and let it rip, to gain so sympathy, to get the guilt factor going???? Hindsight is 20/20 for me, when my W told me I could have house, kids everything on was on my knees begging and crying. I wouldn't be caught dead doing that now, but if it gave me the upper hand, I don't know???
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.