Not Me...Ever part 2

[Gardener]

Brava!

[motherof3]

...why do I still feel sick by all that has transpired?

Because it is not any easy sitch to deal with. Because (I am guessing) that you haven't eaten much the last couple of days. Because you are running on little sleep. Because you are not a robot and are allowed to have emotions. Because this is not how you visioned things to be.

I am praying that God may offer you peace and comfort.

Mo3

[SDFoundGirl]

(((Luv))) I thank you -

It may not have been DB perfect however it was Serenity perfect and quite frankly I am done with the mind games he tries to play.

I say it's DB perfect BECAUSE:

1. It's DEFINITELY a 180;
2. It sets a clear boundary about what crap you will listen to and what you'll put up with;
3. You let go of what he thought or how he'd respond (can I get a detached here?);
4. You weren't pursuing.

I'd say that's pretty textbook, and INCREDIBLY healthy for YOU.

You're kind of my hero right now!

SD

[kara]

(((Serenity)))

You did what you had to do and you did just fine

Praying for you and your family tonight.

[Virtually_Handsome]

(((((Serenity)))))

It had to be done. There may be a little ugliness ahead! But you can deal with it!

[Serenity13]

(((Hugs to all)))

I thank each of you for your support, prayers and kind hearts...

I say it's DB perfect BECAUSE:

1. It's DEFINITELY a 180;
2. It sets a clear boundary about what crap you will listen to and what you'll put up with;
3. You let go of what he thought or how he'd respond (can I get a detached here?);
4. You weren't pursuing.

I'd say that's pretty textbook, and INCREDIBLY healthy for YOU.

You're kind of my hero right now!

SD ~
Until you put it this way, I felt like I had screwed up big time...
I told a friend last night that when I came here and checked my thread, I was blown away by the way you broke it down and it made me feel 1000% times better having it laid out like this.

[Coach]

Here is where I hit my stride - Because before when I was answering, it was based on emotions once again) - "According to my lawyer as well as the state of Florida, abandoning your family isn't illegal (a form of child abuse though) however cutting them off financially is illegal - If I was the b***h you claim me to be, you would be sitting in a jailcell right now with your bank account frozen. Your child support is about $1400.00 a month with you now being behind 6 months and counting. Had you been smart about this, you would have left it with me taking about $200.00 every 2 weeks."

A few facts always ruin a good argument.


Do more of what works.

Great job Serenity!

Cheers

[rockedworld]

(((Serenity)))
You are amazingly strong!

[Serenity13]

(((Coach)))

I am always honored to have you here and I thank you for your wisdom and insight. I have you to thank as well as numerous others here because without you guys, I wouldn't have had the strength to make it this far.


Now if I could only find the Pupster who seems to be MIA

[Serenity13]

(((Rocked)))

As are you my friend - I will never forget how I came to be this strong as stated to Coach above.