Don't know where to post this.

[loveherstill]

I see your point Michelle. I should grab the kids in the middle of the week an take them for a few hours. That way she cannot make plans and she is alone in house to feel it.

I have started making her come see me some as well, when she wants to see me.

I don't truly believe she wants D (she has had too many opportunities to file or at least move that she has not taken). I think she is acting like Smartcookie did and is using this to punish me for years of hurting her self esteem.

I seem to be getting forward progress out of her now. I will follow this advice as well Michelle. I will get the kids some on my schedule.