Oh well cant be helped but next time let it go to VM, if its urgent you can always say you were in the bathroom and phone him right back..
BTW no wonder youre really worried about the timeline you got it back to front lol, its 1 month for every year, not one year for every month, if it was that I think we all admit defeat and sign the papers straight away!
It is difficult having the kids going back and forth between your H and you, although my S is twenty one at the beginning he used to tell me about what his dad was doing, sometimes in an excited way, in the end I had to get his GF bless her to tell him if he didnt stop I couldnt spend time with him as he was rubbing my face in it, unless his dad was dead that was really the only time I wanted to know! Very hard but the only way I could cope, although as time went on and S told his dad a few home truths I cant say I didnt enjoy hearing about those lol!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!
