I agree 100% with gnosis - her problems are HER problems, it's not your responsibility to fix them.

If she wants to works on them that's her business.

You have to work on YOU.

H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010