It's terrible and I can't believe how one gets sucked into this. You start out DB'ing...staying strong...trying hard to reconcile. Then Jekyll turns to Hyde. Someone writes. The other responds. Ugh.

I have one angry and punitive woman here. I have the proverbial "toxic wife". I live with immaturity: my photos of me and my son get turned over or placed behind an object; my laundry gets thrown on the floor; my children are positioned so I can't get to them.....

One a day to day basis, it is difficult to stay calm, steady and not bow down to her level.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;