Your answer: "W, I have a lot on my plate right now. I don't know... but if there is one thing I have learned from this, only I can make myself happy. I can't depend on you for that."
That is what i keep saying to her - i have to work on me right now. I see the looks on her face like she wants me to say more, but in my gut i feel it is a trap to see if i am just trying to manipulate her like you have suggested.
trust me - i feel like the whole world has opened before me. i am going out running every night like i used to years ago, i am reading (too bad i didn't see these signs before they dropped on me)
Originally Posted By: Gnosis
With respect to her problems... you can't do a thing about them. You don't tell her what to do or how to improve herself while she is "walking towards the door." When she makes a sincere and honest commitment, ONLY THEN can you become the knight in shining armor. Any time before that she may view as manipulation.
Thanks - that is exactly the kind of advice i was looking for - just feel like she needs me more than ever, but do not want to pursue and derail the little hope i have right now.
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
