First off, Great job!

Originally Posted By: motherof3
He replied with I will call you this afternoon....Now I need to prepare myself for this call. I am not sure what he is going to say.


The key is to respond, not react.

You have choices when he calls.

You can let it go to VM. Listen to his words. Think about a response then TM or e-mail.

If you choose to answer, you can listen and validate and then: "I need time to think about everything you just said. Goodbye."

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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