My attorney feels I should get the best deal I can NOW and get it finalized because she feels that WHEN not IF the A collaspes my W may take a different stand on the settlement agreement and not to my benefit. She bases this on her experience with several cases where the W realized she had cheapened herself and the backlash was focused on the H. I didn't get her to elaborate on this as it was an email exchange.
Yes, go for it now. In the very beginning 3-4 weeks after the bomb my W saying that she wanted me to have the kids and the house. I wish I had taken her up on it then, I still have the house and the kids but I also have a lawyer. I could have probably gotten a mediator (like you now) and it would have cost me far less. My wife, I think is changing her tune, once a lawyer gets hold of them and tells them what they could get, it fills their head with BS ideas. All she wants is an escape right now and she is willing to do anything, go for it now. Then work on the M. I am having to collect all this documentation now and it is going to be a long process, I absolutely hate it. I feel like it will be hard to DB while in this process.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
