I was thinking the same as newmama... if you felt strong enough, it would be great for you to work on that set! You could be fabulous, creative, fun, etc. You have every right to be as much a part of that as he does. His choices should not stop you from being part of things you enjoy.
I do understand, though, if you don't feel strong enough. The pain that goes with these sitches is unbelievable.
