Thanks dburt...Also another question...Both of our birthdays are coming up as well as Valentines day...I know OM has been pressuring her to see him on a road trip for Valentines day. Do I do something for her birthday and valentines day or what...

Other thing is...I know one thing she has always liked to do is pick out clothes for me and I have always been a little resistant. In thoughts of a new wardrobe would it be wise at this stage to nonchalantly ask for her help?