"If at all possible I would like to meet those needs. I feel as though it may help the situation by being a little more specific about what your needs are. Perhaps an idea of sorts on how they can be met. Is there something that I could help you do?"
okay.....I'll buy that....
Originally Posted By: OldPilot
I got no response so far so we will see what tonight brings.
Thats fairly normal.....you aren't reacting the way she expects you to....Which would be the same OldPilot....
Originally Posted By: OldPilot
Also I would like to say that while I feel I have a good grasp of DB'ing, I am realizing that I am probably not as detached as I should be and it is much easier to look at someone elses sich and figure out what to do than it is to look in the mirror and tell yourself what to do. I know Jack had that figured out about me months ago, so I guess it is something to work on. Mirror work is hard. (Except in my glass business.LOL)
Mirror work IS hard.....
Thats why they call it work....
In the end, it is worth every second that you do that, and if you really DB, and realize the purpose of DB'ing....
You will understand that the mirror work really never ends....
And then, only then, can you truly view this as a gift to you, from her.....
You are doing really well my friend.....just a little fine tuning before take-off.......
