Just checked out Retrouvaille. WhatdidIdo I have to be honest I would go and give it a try because even though I follow Native American spirituality I see the depth and wisdom from many Christian teachings. My wife however is absolutely hostile to Christians or anything Christian based. She has already emphatically stated that if we do go to any kind of counseling ( which she flip flops on whether she is willing to do) it had better not have a Christian bent. Any ideas on this also?