yes, i would want to respond too. but, not sure that anything you would say would make a difference. the only thing I hate is that people take silence as an acceptance to the accusation. but, I think it's probably the best thing to ignore.
I would get that garnishment in asap since he's late on the second one, and not doing what he says he will do. and prepare yourself for his reaction. that's why I say write the letter just days before he would get the notice. yes, he will still be mad, but imho, it gives you the chance to show it as a benefit to everyone, instead of just an attack against him, which is how he will see it of course. but I understand whatever you choose to do, I wouldn't want to be in your position, and I'm sorry you have to deal with it all.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."