I think you worded that nicely. Nothing wrong with asking her to clarify what those needs are.
Remeber to stay even keeled no matter what her answer is. If she comes up with something legit, then great! That will be something to build on going forward.
If her answer is untrue or off the wall about what you have or haven't done, then you know it's the depression talking.
It's up to you to filter that all out, but whatever you do, don't argue or defend yourself, simply validate what she says.
Oh... If you haven't already noticed, sometimes it takes them a while to think about and process what is being discussed. So don't take it the wrong way just because you haven't heard anything yet.
